Guidance and Counseling Essay

1. 5 terms in counseling with their definitions and why you chose them? a. Individualization A thickening is unique and sine the invitee is different techniques in helping him should be different. I chose this term because it is pretty obvious that it is very important to chouse the differences of each(prenominal) node to help them more effectively. b. Controlled Emotional Involvement the node also need to receive appropriate response to his feelings. The counsellors response must(prenominal) be must be based on the thorough familiarity and understanding of the clients feelings, guided by purpose and non by emotion. While I was reading the hand-outs I was amazed with the principles of the counseling. This is my offshoot time to know that trained counsellors are guided by principles and not by emotions.c. Acceptance The counsellor views the client as a entirely some genius with strength and weaknesses, positive and negative feelings, congenial and non-congenial qualit ies. I accord with this principle because a counsellor must not choose whom he want to give counsel and must welcome anyone who needs it. d. nonjudgmental attitude A client should not be judged. The counsellors role is to objectively evaluate and understand the client and his situation. A counsellor must not be subjective in evaluating a client and must leave a compassionate and understanding attitude to a client. e. Follow up It is very important to identify a client feel the concern of a counsellor to help him not serious as a client but as a person or more as a friend.2. Five terms in excellence and discuss why they are important to you. a. never Never Never Give up I always believe that in journey to excellence will never be complete without disappointments and failures. The great glory is not in ever falling but in still standing despite all the obstacles that life may bring. Those commonwealth who do not commit mistakes are those who do not do anything at all.b. Attitud e Talent may bring us up in the heights of success but our attitude will make us stay there.  c. Dream Excellent people are dreamers. They adopt their own invisible blueprints written in their hearts and minds that only them fucking see and they live each day believing and doing it. d. Afflicted. How can one claim victory without fighting a war? We should accept afflictions as though we are body prepareers who treat the burdens of weights as something that can build them not hurt them.e. Continued on. Quitters never win and winners never quit. No one can limit us. It is us who are limiting ourselves. let not trials stop us The earth is experiencing a lot of destructions each day but it never stopped.